Words are tools that magickal workers wield, and more powerfully so if wielded with intention. This is true in any context. When one continues to employ an incorrect word after the correct word has been provided by the primary authority on the subject, one is intentionally manifesting some nasty consequences. I recommend practicing sincere discernment, including a rousing examination of one's own privileges.
|Spivak gender neutral pronouns: e / em/ eir /eirs/ emself|